Astrology remedy / Upay is NOT a magical subversion of destiny that one created from one's own free will in the past.
This is achieved by understanding ourselves and transforming for the better — mentally, psychologically and emotionally.
Remedies should ideally involve some tweaks in doing things that we are regularly doing already, anyway.
It is not just one-off action or periodic actions of symbolic nature that would do the trick.
Symbolic actions like feeding animals some specific stuff, offering some articles to people or institutions, etc., are merely communications with the world around us.
They change lives only under declarations by charlatans and frauds.
Nowhere in our texts are such actions promised to magically change lives. They are only advised to improve long-term karmic gaps.
Remedies like mantra are pure but 99% ineffective in modern life because common people cannot follow the procedure and lifestyle required to chant mantra.
The issue is therefore not necessarily the purity of the remedy, but whether it can actually be integrated into the life of the person attempting to practise it.
A practical and effective remedy is about daily tweaks of regular, mundane activities performed under a mind undergoing transformation.
Such actions or tweaks should hardly cost money or considerable time.
The remedy therefore becomes part of life itself rather than something performed separately in the hope of producing a sudden change.
In the theatre of worldly affairs, if the birth horoscope indicates that receiving something — for example, money, relationship or child — is not sanctioned in abundance, it would be extremely difficult to cross those limits.
So what can remedies achieve in such cases?
Just to reinforce again — there is none sitting up there fixing these limits for us.
It is our free will of the past which is today's destiny. God retired from our worldly affairs after giving us the capability to do karma according to our free will.
Originally, Jyotish (Indian astrology) was used as a tool to find the best times for performing the highest Vedic rituals — for example, fire sacrifices, stotra, yajna, etc.
In Jataka Jyotish, that is, human horoscopy, it can be used to reorient our energies towards a specific purpose, including worldly matters.
However, Jyotish was essentially meant to be a spiritual tool.
Again, spiritualism does not necessarily mean outright renunciation.
It can also mean understanding our higher connections with each other, and with animate and inanimate objects.
This is highly controversial topic and rightly so, in view of the state of modern affairs, malpractices and outright frauds. What was supposed to invoke vibrational changes within us was hijacked by commercial ecosystem in last century. To cut a long story short, expecting magic out of remedies is delusional. I have been writing about "logical remedies" backed up by specific and practical daily actions that heal karmic blockage indicated by individual charts.
For our life matters e.g. career, relationship, etc all the 12 ascendants have their own paths to follow. Each path has it's door with key to open that door.
Paths to Follow for Relationship & Marriage
Following are a few specific paths to follow to help relationship and marriage matters sorted for each ascendant sign.
Open up to people, places and nature around you, how you make people around you feel will make it easier or challenging relationship journey.
Streamline daily routine and bring more discipline in life. Remain committed to your routine responsibilities and work to perform daily tasks well without grudges. Fix your lifestyle issues related to eating and daily working.
Creative thinking, pursuing interest and including fun and celebration in life.
Create positive environment at home, remove sharp objects from your space, include good aroma and try to bring in fresh air. Prioritize domestic life and participate in household matters.
Exercise or walks and including more physical movements, listening to positive sound, improving relations with younger sibling and juniors at work, include more outdoor activities.
Focus on what and how you speak and eat, connect with family and community, feed poor kids at regular intervals - not give money but food and do it lovingly with emotions, not mechanically.
Fix low confidence or over confidence whatever the case may be. Shift your attention from outside to inside. Forget what others think, focus on own brain and thinking. Clean up what you think by controlling the external stimuli whenever you can. Make life goals and stay focused - relationship gaps will automatically start sorting out.
Develop habit of giving, prioritize private space for relaxation and include spiritual activities on regular basis. Shift your mind from "getting" to "giving", getting will be taken care of by the universe. Remove obstacles to quality sleep.
Socialize, connect with elder sibling and friends.
Focus on career activities, plan and act upon your professional path, training and upgrading work skills.
Think in terms of what are daily good karma can you do, develop kindness and generosity, devote some time to father, update your beliefs and stay away from narrow thinking.
Work on your fear, phobia or trauma from the past - consciously known or not. Spiritual practice definitely helps in relationship and marriage.
The above measures are some common features and patterns that people of same ascendant share in matters of relationship and marriage. Working in these directions definitely help the matters - this is your first step.
Once you get the ball rolling with YOUR present karma, only then other spiritual remedies if authentically suggested can start working to change your inner vibrations.
Planets give what we want, houses receive in our life but it is given when we walk the right path. For each domain of life e.g. career, relation, child-birth/parenting etc. there is a specific path to be followed for each individual.
This post gave broad level guidelines for each ascendant to follow as the first step in matters of relationship.
Author : Partho Banerjee
